Friday, August 21, 2009

Stimulating Conversation

Aunt Robin and Reid came to France, and I was lucky enough to spend about 3 days with them, tourist-ing it up in Normandy. Besides the WWII beaches and museums and history, the Bayeux tapestry (depicting William the Conqueror's conquest of England in 1066), the delicious cuisine (I ate duck, pork, cod, a camembert pie, Ile Flottante, creme brulée, a few apple tarts, not to mention what I drank! rosé & red wine, cider, kir, Normandy kir, which is cider plus calvados...), I was blessed with stimulating conversation! My aunt is one of the most amazing people I know, and Reid is the most well-read 15 yr old I've ever met (better-read than I was at that age, and probably even better-read than I am now), so we were able to talk about history, politics, current affairs, and of course, family gossip! I love those conversations, because the only conclusion I ever reach is that I come from crazies, all of whom I love the more for it, for keeping things interesting (and making me look good)!

I've been starved for thought-provoking discourse of late, which I attribute to 3 main reasons; 1. I've been spending a lot of time lately with a 20-month-old. As you can imagine, topics of conversation range from horses to cows to eating and bathing, and back again. Exciting. 2. I've been surrounded by francophones. I focus on being understood, and trying to understand. Correct grammar and simpler ideas are the goal of this short and sweet interactions. And 3. I haven't been around inspiring people anyways. I'm sure these Frenchies have convictions about some important things, but I'm 'the help' right now, doing my job, trying to do it well, and beyond that, who cares? It's fine, but being with Aunt Robin and Reid made me miss people who read The New Yorker...(and drink wine...I was a thirsty girl when they found me, and thankfully a little reliving last summer helped)!

This month I've become proficient and confident in changing diapers, feeding a kid, entertaining him, and making sure he doesn't die or kill himself (well, I still have a week to go, better not speak too soon...) I don't want a screaming crying eating pooping irrational little beast of my own. I don't want to be a nanny for any extended period of time, but babysitting here and there is definitely something I can handle. Go me, living up (or down?) to gender stereotypes. It is what it is. I can be nurturing and caring, if I must.

This time next Friday I'm going to be on a train to Paris! I'm stoked to get on with it, and get to the next thing! Paris, London, Phnom Penh...bring it on! I'm in a good traveling place right now...I'm super excited about where I'm going and what I'm doing the next few weeks, but I'm also really excited to be headed home shortly. I'm already making a list of things to do once home. So far, it's:
  • eat Mexican! lots of it!
  • drink spiced rum! Sailor Jerry, I've missed you! (real-life Jerry, not so much)
  • see Miles!
  • see family!
  • see friends! (I miss you, Mr. Quinn, Hannah, Megan, Alison, Alisha, Danny, Yuliya, et al!)
  • get drunk with you all!
  • be on a boat!
  • go to some idealist.org sponsored career & college fairs in October!
  • bike!
  • run!
  • swim!
  • triathlon?
  • take micro and macro! (youpie!)
  • take the GRE! (things just keep getting more exciting!)
  • visit Corvallis
  • visit Santa Cruz
  • visit Seattle
  • visit Utah
  • discover Portland (hipster hangouts, watering holes, free fun stuff, local businesses, and what have you-a 'rediscovering-my-roots-reunion-tour/bonanza!)
  • apply to...the next big thing (whatever that ends up being)
  • have a kick-ass Christmas...somewhere! ;)
  • get out by...September 22, 2010 at the latest! I'm not moving home or anything, just visiting for a calendar year MAX!

2 comments:

Hannah said...

"I can be nurturing and caring, if I must."

Well said. Thanks for the shout out, and we can't wait for you to visit us for stimulating conversations, lovely personality, and a boatload of booze!

Madeleine Vedel said...

When your French improves, not to worry, the locals will dig into conversations with you with gusto. But no, they don't read the New Yorker and the New York Times cover to cover -- a shame no? Le Monde is their equivalent, intellectual, to the left.

But enjoy that 20mos old -- I'm sure he (she?) loves you dearly now. And they're good conversation magnets -- my first au pair had a grand time at the local park chatting with other parents while the small beasts played within sight.

Enjoy your Paris time!